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Johnny Ducati's avatar

I grew up a rural kid in Kentucky experiencing little diversity until my widowed mom dragged us kids to the university town, Lexington.

Living in married housing on campus was an experience, seeing how middle easterners and Asians lived and holding my breath as I ran to my door when the exotics down the hall were cooking.

I lasted part of two school years before I left Mom and the younger siblings for home. I had become bitter and angry in a short time being forced to live in close quarters with Diversity. I had to be with my own people.

I still recall my childhood as one of glorious benign neglect. Mom kept the lights on and I was free to be a kid, exploring and tinkering doing the daredevil stuff kids used to do.

I still had places to go and people to meet, but never any desire to mingle with nons. Of course, all the places I went had their own problems with Diversity.

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J. Mayfair's avatar

I agree with much of what you said. I must disagree with your linguistic notion of calling Black people African-American.

I am from Mississippi. I tried this in the 90’s and it still lands poorly today (I find it a notable benchmark): mention to a Black person another “African-American” and they look at you as if you have peed your khakis while making direct eye contact. They can’t decide whether to mock you mercilessly or call your caretaker. It’s not a class/education issue, either.

Out of an aversion to inconsistency, I am okay with being Pink.

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